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Gay and Lesbian Family Law

Gay and Lesbian Family Law Attorneys in Chicago

The Rights of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered Persons

Families can take many forms, yet in any family the need for a good lawyer can be crucial to protecting all the rights a family should enjoy. Jill M. Metz & Associates is a skilled and experienced firm, working through the various issues faced by today's modern family.

Creating a Family: Chicago Gay and Lesbian Family Law Attorneys

Illinois Civil Union Act - With the passage of a civil union bill in Illinois (effective June 1, 2011), many of the same obligations, responsibilities, protections and benefits afforded to legally married couples will be extended to gay and lesbian couples who choose to enter into a civil union in Illinois or who have already entered into a legal union through a previous gay marriage, civil union, or substantially similar domestic partnership conducted in another state or country which is now being recognized in Illinois as a civil union.

The Illinois Civil Union Act does not provide protection for couples who are not legally unioned. Being registered with a county, city, or employer does not afford you the benefits and protections under the new Illinois Civil Union Act. In order to be eligible for the rights afford through a civil union, you must enter into a civil union in the state of Illinois or enter into a marriage, civil union, or substantially similar domestic partnership in another state or country after June 1, 2011, or have previously entered into a marriage, civil union, or substantially similar domestic partnership in another state or country.

If you have entered into a marriage, civil union, or substantially similar domestic partnership conducted in another state or country with someone with whom you are now broken up from and you want to enter into an Illinois Civil Union with someone new, you will need to file for a civil union divorce from your former spouse before you can register for an Illinois Civil Union with your current partner.

For same-sex couples in a committed relationship who are not ready to enter into a civil union, we can adapt existing laws to establish obligations, responsibilities, protections and benefits for you and your partner. For issues ranging from forming your relationship through estate planning, adoption, and real estate closings to dissolving your relationship through real estate disputes, property disagreements, and determining custody of children, Jill M. Metz & Associates is experienced and skilled in working through these matters with understanding and legal knowledge. We can help you ensure that your partner's rights are considered in the event of catastrophic illness or death, as well as assist you in ensuring your rights are asserted in property and custody matters during a difficult ending to your relationship.

Domestic Partners Registered With a County, City, or Employer - If you registered as domestic partners before June 1, 2011, with your local county or city, you will still need to get a civil union license from your county clerk in order for the rights afforded by the Illinois Civil Union Act to apply to you.

If you have already registered with your employer, you will still need to get a civil union license from your county clerk in order for the rights afforded by the Illinois Civil Union Act to apply to you. In addition, since federal law does not recognize your civil union, depending on your employer, you may have to continue to comply with your company's domestic partnership requirements in order to receive such benefits as medical insurance.

For couples who choose to not enter into an Illinois Civil Union, you may still register as domestic partners in the counties and cities that continue to provide a registry.

Adoption - Some lesbian and gay couples want to start a family together through alternative reproductive technology or through adopting a child in need of a home. Other couples want to have one partner adopt the other partner's minor children. Jill M. Metz & Associates is experienced at guiding families through the complex and sometimes intrusive adoption process. After years of experience, we are intimately familiar with the requirements of gay and lesbian couples working within the adoption court system.

Even before we get to the court system, the process of using Assisted Reproductive Technology can be daunting. We assist clients in the process of entering into surrogacy, gestational, and insemination agreements.

Couples who have a child after they have entered into an Illinois Civil Union are both recognized as the legal parents of that child in the State of Illinois and other locations that recognize the parents' civil union. Because many states and the Federal government will not recognize this relationship, these couples will still need to complete a related adoption between the non-biological parent and the child in order for their parent/child relationship to be fully protected.

Estate Planning - Estate planning for gay and lesbian families is vitally important. Even if you have entered into an Illinois Civil Union or a marriage or civil union in another state or country, it is best to have established clear legal documentation of your intent through powers of attorney and a will, at a minimum. If you move out of the state of Illinois or are in a state or country that does not recognize your Illinois Civil Union, a time of crisis could be increased if you do not have the proper legal documents already prepared. In addition, since the Defense of Marriage Act under federal law does not recognize the Illinois Civil Union, there may be detrimental tax consequences for the survivor if the deceased does not have estate documents naming the survivor as beneficiary.

Lesbian and gay couples who choose not to enter into an Illinois Civil Union have no legal rights without clear, expertly prepared documents. The deceased's biological family could come in during a time of illness and make all decisions, inherit everything owned by the deceased, and make decisions regarding your children. This unique legal nature of LGBTQ families requires attorneys to be more careful in interviews with clients, advice provided to clients, and drafting of estate documents. Jill M. Metz & Associates have a long history of experience at dealing with these issues.

Durable Powers of Attorney - Jill M. Metz & Associates will create documents for you and your partner that will allow you to make vital decisions for each other in the event of serious illness.

Domestic Partnership Agreements - For couples in committed relationships who choose not to enter into an Illinois Civil Union, there are still steps that can be taken to establish a couple's intentions for the treatment of their property.

Taxes - A domestic partnership agreement does not give you the tax status of a married couple. The Illinois Department of Revenue is determining whether or not the Illinois Civil Union Act gives a civil unioned couple the tax status of filing jointly for your state taxes. The federal government does not recognize a civil unioned couple as having the tax status to file jointly. If you are interested in securing the tax rights of legally married couples, we encourage you to contact your state and federal representatives and get involved in the political process.

Real Estate Purchases - When you are ready to purchase your home, our firm can help you with the process and ensure that the deed to your house is titled in the way that best meets your family's goals.

Ending a Relationship: Family Law Attorneys Representing LGBTQ Clients

Illinois Civil Union Act - The dissolution of a civil union in Illinois happens under the same laws applicable to the dissolution of a marriage. This means that the courts are available to resolve disputes about division of property, maintenance, child custody and visitation, child support, and other issues that commonly arise.

If you entered into a civil union, gay marriage, or substantially similar domestic partnership in another state or country before June 1, 2011, and also broke up before June 1, 2011, but were unable to legally dissolve your civil union, gay marriage, or substantially similar domestic partnership formed in another state or country, then you are still unionized. You should take steps to dissolve your legal relationship, which will be recognized as a civil union in Illinois, as soon as possible. This is true even if one of you does not live in Illinois.

If the only legal relationship you have entered into is your Illinois Civil Union, you may use the Illinois court system to dissolve your union even if one or both of you no longer live in Illinois.

Dissolution of Domestic Partnership Agreements - If you and your partner are not civil unioned under Illinois law when you separate, you will not necessarily be afforded the protections of the courts of law to assist you in the separation of your property and in establishing your custodial rights as a parent. However, there may be remedies through the domestic relations court and chancery court. Jill M. Metz & Associates can walk you through your legal options.

Many attorneys do not have the experience to handle the special needs of lesbian and gay couples who separate. Jill M. Metz & Associates will help you handle the potential legal minefield, through, mediation, negotiation, or litigation, and smooth out the details of this painful process.

Jill M. Metz & Associates uses existing contract, equity and child custody laws to help same-sex partners divide property and arrange for the care of the children. We also represent our clients in any litigation involved. We handle these difficult issues with dignity and care. These same legal remedies are available to different-sex couples who did not get married and are now ending their relationship.

If you and your partner have entered into a partnership agreement, we can review the agreement and make sure all provisions for terminating the agreement are completed, making sure the dissolution of your relationship is finalized.

Children - Whether or not you are in a civil union, if you have adopted your child, the Illinois Domestic Relations Court is an arena where you can work out custodial issues, such as visitation and child support.

If you are not the biological parent and have not adopted your child, there are some limited options for you to be able to pursue visitation rights.

If you enter in an Illinois Civil Union, your child is born after your civil union date, and you have not completed an adoption, then Illinois Domestic Relations Court is likely an arena where you can work out custodial issues, such as visitation and child support.

Estate Planning - When a relationship ends, estate documents need to be reviewed. Jill M. Metz & Associates can help you revoke old documents and draft new documents, such as a will, a trust and powers of attorneys. When beneficiaries change, the need to execute new will and trust documents and confirm the revision of beneficiary forms is often an overwhelming process. Our firm can assist you in creating a new estate plan that best fits your goals.

Real Estate Sales - Often when relationships end, there is a need to sell the residence. When you are ready to sell your home, our firm can help you with the process to ensure that this often-painful experience is completed smoothly.

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